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How to Detect a Lie

Telling a lie is a common human behavior. Some very common reasons for telling a lie is to avoid embarrassment and being punished, to win admiration or reward from others, or to get out of an awkward situation. Though the truth is really hard to express no one can deny the fact that truth can never be hidden. It has to be exposed one day. We must be aware of such people who can deceive us by telling a lie. Such people are so goodat lying that we cannot tell if they are telling the truth or a lie.Experts say that there are ways to spot signs of untruthfulness. Here in this comprehensive narrative post, we will discuss some very interesting ways to detect a liar: Be a friendly listener If you want to detect whether a person talking to you is a liar or not, the first thing is that you must pretend as a comfortable and friendly listener. Keep listening to the person unless he stops himself. Make that person as comfortable as you can so that he may win your trust. Ask basic questions Once the person has enough of his narration, now you may ask some basic and formal questions like what are his plans for the weekend, what is expected weather conditions, etc. Do not overload him with too much questioning. A liar repeats questions before answering them When you start with your basic questions, you will notice that the person in front of you will react awkwardly by repeating your questions instead of answering them. He may even repeat words or phrases. He is, in fact, trying to confuse you with the situation so you may not catch his lies. A long or abnormal pause before … [Read More...]